Could either be possible and both need each other?
Stubborn resistance lose fear and become more genuine?
Gentleness grow firmness and conviction?
And what would the onlookers say… lose the fluff you’re better off plain? Oh why would you plant it there! How is it gonna grow some day? More bricks! More peonies! More bricks! more peonies! And those that heard them could hear their volume increasing… but when very quiet one maybe could hear the brick saying “I kinda like you here “ and the peone saying “thank you for having my back” and the two would harmonize while the onlookers quacked…………..
“Union of masculine and feminine qualities constitutes completeness” ~ Mary Baker Eddy