Sometimes the pull says ‘wait, I’m not ready.”
Sometimes it comes more like “no way jose, can’t dive in..yet.”
Always a willingness.
But always an inner wrestling tug of war that feels like squirming around rushing trying to get. ready. for……
On one hand, the mental quality of yearning to be prepared stems from a life goal of desiring to heal…and in so doing help others…and be ready for their call.
But…on another hand, the incessant pull that insists I’m never ready?
Not okay.
and not true.
So here’s me gently offering in whatever way this can hug your heart today:
We are each ready.
We are.
Why.
Because we are each ideas…expressions of the one Mind….and as such….we are already fully and completely and wholly expressed.
That doesn’t mean we won’t grow anymore.
But…it does mean we have what we need this moment to ‘do’ and ‘be’ the how we yearn to…..
We don’t have to put life on hold.
We don’t have to pause love.
We don’t have to stop. being. ever.
Watch this pull to feel ‘never ready’ or ‘not prepared’ or ‘need to do more of x (the procrastination) before you can dive into y (the real passion).
It will show up in lotsa different ways for each of us.
What helps me so much when I notice this tendency is to simply refuse to consent.
Maybe I verbally say out loud “Yes, I’m ready.”
Maybe I just put thought into go mode and allow myself to do.
For me?
The way it comes up most often?
Isn’t about projects or stuff to do or errands or moving or anything logistical.
It shows up as restricting my right to love the way I love, to be the way I want to be, to live the how I want to live.
If I look around me, there feels like much needs changing to fully reflect the who and why I am.
But.
I’m aware.
And I’m pecking away at every iota of an inkling that says “I’m not ready.”
So that’s all.
Lemme leave it simple today.
- Watch the pull that says “I’m not ready.”
- Reverse it’s tendency to make you stall…on being….on loving….on being true to your heart.
- Counter it by putting yourself in full steam ahead on anything that feels doable this moment.
- Loosen the grip you’ve held clinging to the modes and patterns of behavior that just aren’t serving you.
- Allow yourself to be.
Be….:)
And if any of this resonates and you wanna chat more about how to resist the pulls that convince you you’re not ready…be in touch.
Would love to support you to see and feel you are ready….now….
As always, thanks for being here.
Huggabuggas.